Sometimes you just cannot talk sense into people. It can be extremely aggravating plus infuriating when you feel like you have useful advice that someone will not heed. This is why I tried to keep my opinions to myself plus let people make their own mistakes these nights. I have been burned too multiple times by engaging in deep, constructive conversations that go entirely nowhere when my friends plus family ignore everything that I say. Eventually I realized that I am fatigued of this back plus forth. I would rather just let people make their own mistakes while I kneel back plus watch. That’s why I am laying in a plastic grass chair right now, burning up in my dress plus wishing that I was in air conditioner, for the past multiple years my best friend has been planning her outdoor wedding plus I have held my tongue about the air quality concerns. I always thought it was a strange choice to have your big ceremony in a space without any air conditioner or heating options! Living in an section of the country with a tumultuous temperature means you never know if you should expect burning tepid or freezing chilly air. You entirely need a central heating plus cooling system inside of your household to stay comfortable everyday. Why would you ever subject your wedding to potential disaster with a tepid plus humid summer time afternoon or a spontaneously freezing chilly front? I did not want to get in a fight with my best friend over her lack of Heating plus Air Conditioning at her wedding so I did not say anything. Now, it’s a hundred degrees outside, there’s no AC to be found, plus I’ve already seen 3 guests pass out from heat stroke.