Periodically you just cannot talk sense into people.
It can be severely aggravating and infuriating when you feel like you have useful advice that someone will not heed. This is why I tried to keep my opinions to myself and let people make their own mistakes these nights. I have been burned too several times by engaging in deep, constructive conversations that go easily nowhere when my friends and family ignore everything that I say. Eventually I realized that I am sleepy of this back and forth. I would rather just let people make their own mistakes while I sit back and watch. That’s why I am resting in a plastic lawn chair right now, burning up in my dress and wishing that I was in air conditioning, for the past several years my best associate has been planning her outdoor ceremony and I have held my tongue about the air quality concerns. I regularly thought it was a unusual option to have your pressing ceremony in a space without any air conditioning or heating options, however living in an section of the country with a tumultuous climate means you never know if you should expect burning sizzling or chilly frosty air! You easily need a central heating and cooling system inside of your loft to stay comfortable everyday. Why would you ever subject your ceremony to potential disaster with a sizzling and humid summer time day or a spontaneously chilly frosty front? I didn’t want to get in a fight with my best associate over her lack of Heating & A/C at her ceremony so I didn’t say anything. Now, it’s a hundred degrees outside, there’s no AC to be found, and I’ve already seen 3 guests pass out from heat stroke.