Sometimes you just cannot talk sense into people.
It can be seriously frustrating plus infuriating when you feel like you have useful advice that someone will not heed.
This is why I tried to keep my opinions to myself plus let people make their own mistakes these mornings. I have been burned too many times by engaging in deep, constructive conversations that go legitimately nowhere when my friends plus family ignore everything that I say. Eventually I realized that I’m exhausted of this back plus forth. I would rather just let people make their own mistakes while I sit back plus watch. That’s why I’m resting in a plastic shrubbery chair right now, burning up in my dress plus wishing that I was in a/c, and for the past several years my best buddy has been planning her outdoor ceremony plus I have held my tongue about the air quality complications. I consistently thought it was a unusual choice to have your large ceremony in a space without any a/c or heating options; Living in an part of the country with a tumultuous temperature means you never know if you should expect burning tepid or freezing freezing air, and you legitimately need a central heating plus cooling system inside of your home to stay comfortable everyday. Why would you ever subject your ceremony to potential disaster with a tepid plus humid summer time day or a spontaneously freezing freezing front? I did not want to get in a fight with my best buddy over her lack of Heating, Ventilation plus A/C at her ceremony so I did not say anything. Now, it’s a hundred degrees outside, there’s no AC to be found, plus I’ve already seen 3 guests pass out from heat stroke.